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4/8/2016 7:19:08 PM
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But that's the beauty of life, everyone has a different way of looking at it. If this is how you feel then great, however, not everyone needs to think or live like you do. They don't want to date a, Hispanic, Caucasian, Asian, African American, etc, then they don't need to. Everyone should be allowed to live how they'd like (as long as they aren't harming (& no I don't mean feelings, more like killing or threatening others lives) people or breaking laws) & if others get upset by it then they need to grow up.
Like I said I'm sure he didn't mean harm by what he said, for all we know he could've had a bad experience with black women & you're choosing to judge without knowing. Like usual we have different opinions, I respect your opinion, however don't be one of those people (like someone in this thread) that label others that are different. There's a difference with this guy you mentioned & someone that has hate for races & that's why they don't date them. The guy you mentioned just has a preference which many (if not everyone) in this world has when it comes to dating.
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Edited by AllMightyUterus: 4/8/2016 7:37:45 PMThe guy, after he told me that, said "its the ni*****- I don't like" So. No he wasn't trying to be nice lol. I have said it's ok to have preference, and its ok to date who you like. I said everyone has their opinions. But preference can be about [i]inferioness[/i], and it could just be the way your love life goes. Either way, get to know someone first before you judge them, thats all. You don't need to think like me to be open to people you cross paths with lol. I'm only speaking on my experience, which isn't unique. I don't have any negative feeling toward you b/c of who you married.
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Well you didn't state that, you said that he said you were pretty but he doesn't date black girls. Someone preferring to date a race or not, doesn't mean they have hate for that race or other races. It's no different them someone choosing to date fat or skinny girls. We can't help who were attracted to, however, if he really said that then it's not a preference because he clearly has hated towards black women. Also you don't need to date someone to be open or get to know them so I don't really know why you keep saying that. Attraction is what you need in order to date someone, no attraction = no relationship (friendship yes, but not relationship). This isn't too hard to grasp, like I said people just think differently & do different things
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Its not something I like bringing up, and I thought saying the whole "not black enough, never gonna be white thing" was getting at my point What you are saying is common knowledge, so yes it doesn't go for any and all instances But I am speaking about [b]dating[/b] I literally had NO attraction to my current boyfriend, but it grew. Nothing is impossible. I don't think we are on the same page....... I have said I agree with you, so I am not too sure what you are still trying to say that I can't [i]grasp[/i]....................... Nor am I trying to change your mind to what I believe. Simply saying that preferences can be fueled by racism, and that is when it is not ok.
