The guy, after he told me that, said "its the ni*****- I don't like" So. No he wasn't trying to be nice lol. I have said it's ok to have preference, and its ok to date who you like. I said everyone has their opinions. But preference can be about [i]inferioness[/i], and it could just be the way your love life goes. Either way, get to know someone first before you judge them, thats all. You don't need to think like me to be open to people you cross paths with lol. I'm only speaking on my experience, which isn't unique. I don't have any negative feeling toward you b/c of who you married.