Well you didn't state that, you said that he said you were pretty but he doesn't date black girls. Someone preferring to date a race or not, doesn't mean they have hate for that race or other races. It's no different them someone choosing to date fat or skinny girls. We can't help who were attracted to, however, if he really said that then it's not a preference because he clearly has hated towards black women. Also you don't need to date someone to be open or get to know them so I don't really know why you keep saying that. Attraction is what you need in order to date someone, no attraction = no relationship (friendship yes, but not relationship). This isn't too hard to grasp, like I said people just think differently & do different things