Yup, it's always good to have thought-filled convos than just be be lusting all damn day haha. We are alright. Had some fall outs like anyone else. but it's been 4 1/2 years. He makes me happy, can't say I am 100% attracted to him, doesn't have a lot of my must haves, but he has an undying love for me. Literally cannot see my flaws, and that's the kinda person I need when things go wrong so!