Hate doesn't equate to anger. Just like you couldn't tell my real emotions through text, You don't know a person because of their skin As I said to others, I felt the same way for Asian men, "they just don't do it for me". But why? If i'm not stereotyping you, and you don't fit the stereotype then whats the issue? I don't know every asian man so I wouldn't dare put them in a group labeled [i]less[/i] If there is any physical traits I don't like, it won't be because ur racial features.. Change the color of any ugly man, he is still ugly. And please don't equate race to a disease or disorder... That is really -blam!-ed up, anyone can have a health issue, but not everyone can be black/asian. At the end of the day, you decide to let color dictate who is worth your romantic time or have a deeper connection with. Thats ok, do what makes you happy. No one is really missing out right? And for me, I want to know whats in that mind, that soul, I want to know your rhythm, because that's who I am experiencing, not what color all that is wrapped up in. And maybe its because of how connected I am to art, music and dance. I want to feel beyond the flesh. And thats ok.