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originally posted in: Would/do you date OUTSIDE your race?
4/13/2016 5:06:55 PM
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But I dont have to think like you do, this is your opinion & I'm free to think differently. I'm not rude to the races I choose not to date, but I don't have to be forced into dating someone I don't have a physical attraction to because people like you want to label me racist. I never said I was opposed to dating other races (& I'm married to someone of another race), i just said I have a preference over the ones I listed. Just because you have a certain opinion, doesn't mean you're correct or people can't have a different opinion. There's a difference between not dating a race because you hate them & having a preference for a race over other races.
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  • [quote]But I dont have to think like you do, this is your opinion & I'm free to think differently.[/quote] We're just debating. I know it's my opinion. Lets not use that fact to stifle debate. [quote]I'm not rude to the races I choose not to date, but I don't have to be forced into dating someone I don't have a physical attraction to because people like you want to label me racist.[/quote] This is literaly the opposite of what I said. Did you even read my post? [quote]I never said I was opposed to dating other races (& I'm married to someone of another race), i just said I have a preference over the ones I listed. Just because you have a certain opinion, doesn't mean you're correct or people can't have a different opinion.[/quote] If you're opinion is racist, (not saying yours are) then yes most humans will agree that you are wrong. [quote]There's a difference between not dating a race because you hate them & having a preference for a race over other races.[/quote] Did you even even read my post?

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  • Edited by savage coco: 4/13/2016 5:52:57 PM
    Just because a lot of people agree with something, doesn't mean that what they agree on is correct. I'm sure Neanderthals didn't call each other racist when they choose the women they did. You're simply just attracted to who you're attracted to. I wouldn't cry or whine if someone said they didn't want to date me because I'm Mexican. I wouldn't scream they're racist because they can date who they'd like. What business is it to me, I'm not the one f×cking them. Also I don't want to debate, only reason I responded was because you said I was racist. Which nothing that I said was racist, like I said I can date who I want & you're free to label me, doesn't mean I care or that I'm going to change. Also nothing in my comment said if I found someone attractive I wouldn't date them because of their race. I just find certain races not attractive, but I'd still date those races if I found a guy I thought was cute. I just typically am more attracted to the other races that I didn't list. The ones I listed I typically am not interested in.

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  • I'm not trying to argue either but you have the wrong idea of what in trying to say. Look I'll simplify it again. If you find someone who's attractive in everyway, but you deny them simply because of their race and nothing more. Which is something that is actually very common. That's racist. It's the same as denying someone a job on race alone. You're not denying them because you're not attracted or because you don't like them. But instead because of a learned racial behavior (i can source that btw if youd like). [b]That's literaly the definition of racist.[/b]

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  • Lol I don't want to read a liberal blog or aticle sorce telling me that I've been conditioned by society or trying to tell me to date someone I don't want to. Things like that are stupid and made up by PC people who are offened and cry about everything. I answered in my last post what you keep asking & as I said label me all you want, that's not going to magically make me think people are suddenly attractive. [quote]Racist: a person who believes that a particular race is superior to another. [/quote]Me having a preference for a race over otheres, does not fit into that definition. Just because I think one race is hotter, doesn't mean I think that race is above the other. As I keep repeating I never said I'd wouldn't date a mexican, Asian or black, I just typically don't have interest in dating them. We have different opinions, this is why I don't want to debate. I'm not going to change your mind (not that I even want to) & you're not going to change mine. I simply answered OPs question.

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  • [quote]Lol I don't want to read a liberal blog or aticle sorce telling me that I've been conditioned by society or trying to tell me to date someone I don't want to. Things like that are stupid and made up by PC people who are offened and cry about everything.[/quote] Nope, just a scientific study linking to a scientific source. https://youtu.be/Ha-fEcSvG4M I love how you assume I'm liberal though. [quote]I answered in my last post what you keep asking & as I said label me all you want, that's not going to magically make me think people are suddenly attractive.[/quote] I guess I'll have to write the same thing 3 times. If you see someone you find to be attractive, but deny them simply because of their race, that's racist. That is what I've been saying the entie time. I never said date someone you don't find attractive. [quote]Me having a preference for a race over otheres, does not fit into that definition. Just because I think one race is hotter, doesn't mean I think that race is above the other. As I keep repeating I never said I'd wouldn't date a mexican, Asian or black, I just typically don't have interest in dating them.[/quote] I not once ever said there was anything wrong with having a preference. [quote]We have different opinions, this is why I don't want to debate. I'm not going to change your mind (not that I even want to) & you're not going to change mine. I simply answered OPs question.[/quote] The problem I have is that you don't even know what I'm trying to say.

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  • Edited by savage coco: 4/13/2016 9:14:55 PM
    I never said you were liberal... Also I'm not going to watch the video because I have my opinion & you have yours & I'm pretty content with my opinion. I get what you're trying to say, but I don't understand why you keep saying it to me or why you said that I was racist. I never said I wouldn't date someone that was attractive because of their race, all I said is people have their preferences & I don't think that makes them racist. And no I don't need you to repeat the same thing again, I understood it the first time. You should comment that on someone else's post, not mine because I never suggested such a thing

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  • Okay m8 then let's call it quits. [spoiler]though I don't remember calling you racist directly[/spoiler]

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  • You said my opinion was racist in your second response, but it's fine, didn't really bother me

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