If almost no guy falls into it, why be concerned there would be any hate to begin or have a need for the first part of your post, hmmm? I can only speak for my own experiences, but I've certainly encountered my fair share of male players who have run the gamut from paternalistic (oh, let's protect the girl because she can't possibly know what to do) to flat out sexually harassing and threatening, so I think I'm pretty clear on the need for our community. If you had stopped your post in the middle, and not have felt the need to chide us on acting on our own experiences, I would have appreciated what you've said a lot more. If you want to make gaming a better place, focus on the folks who make it unsafe.