Sending a message in no way implies "teaching them a lesson" I meant sending the message that he wasn't going to let them push him around as I already said in an earlier comment. Him saying pardon obviously wasn't meant to be taken for its literal definition, if someone saying "pardon" is offensive to you then you should probably read up more on usage of words in different contexts ,he obviously meant it as confusion, as if to ask them to elaborate as to why they randomly want him to leave for no good reason. The lol was completely meaningless, if he had joined the party they still would've just told him to leave. What you would've done is irrelevant because we aren't talking about you or how you seem to be ok with letting people walk over you. The fact that it's a video game is also completely irrelevant, by that logic I can be a douchebag to everyone and anyone I play games with because "it's a mother flipping video game