Great story, i would say that many people more than you expect has this issue with Destiny and they dont or cant separate from the game and forget that Destiny is that... just a game. How many games people pick ans play for a couple of hours and dont touch it again, Destiny is a pretty god-damn deal even if you have been playing since the beggining and buying each DLC day 1, Destiny is a 2.5+ years old game and people still play it, tbh we just need to take a chill pill and remember that destiny is a game, not a job or something like that.