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I want to respond in a tactful manner, one where it doesn't seem like I'm "victim blaming and / or shaming", but I'm honestly finding it hard to do. I guess, what I mean to say -- why let things progress to that point?
Edit: You know what? Don't answer that, just forget it. I realize my comment is mildly ignorant and my perspective is rather shortsighted.
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You don't have to post any personal information for someone to obsess over you to the point of spending all of their time and energy, finding anything, hacking anything. It's pretty gross and can be super scary.