I generally walk up to them. [spoiler]Honestly though, the key is not having second thoughts. Say you want to dance with this girl at some sort of event. It's not that hard, if you just are confident enough to walk up and ask.[/spoiler] Or say you've liked this girl. You've gotta learn how to be confident that you can please this girl, and show it. I know offtopic is a bunch of edgy teens, but actually being sweet and kind is a big plus. You can't just always rely on being just [i]'sweet'[/i] however. You've gotta know how to have some fun. Basically, Have confidence and forget the second thoughts. Nothing is worse than not talking to someone because of fear of rejection, or straight nervousness. At that point, just do the best you can. I saw someone in another thread that gave some really awesome advice on that part.