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Whether you are in a relationship with a female.
Best friends with a female that friend-zoned you.
Or just friend-zoned in general.
Should females have guy friends?... besides you.
If you ask any guy, Majority would say = No
Why?
-If he is your boyfriend, he sees it as a "threat", that their girl friend might one day cheat on them or simply say "good-bye it was fun, but I like him now."
- Every guy in a relationship worst nightmare, being replaced or some guy stealing their girl.
- If he is your best-friend who secretly had a crush on you since 4eva and have been completely friend-Zone like the Weeb he is.
He see it as: She only knows him for 3 days and already dating, while you've known her for 3 years and you only shared a box of biscuits together.
You definitely will not see him again or he's not going to be the "same" after this.
If he is some guy you just met, he either sees the rest of the guy friends as "competition" or jut not worth it and moves on.
It is a guy thing, you females will not understand.
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However, If you ask me if females should have guy friends: I say Yes.
Here is why Weebs:
For those who are still reading, which is the main democratic of females.
You are probably thinking I am some feminist, meh... hard to tell.
The reason why I say Yes, is simple: Females are vulnerable.
Vulnerable by themselves, vulnerable to majority of everything they do in life.
Driving to the gas station, walking down the street and even a simple as a phone call.
Females are vulnerable, they have this need to feel "safe" by having a large amount of guy friends.
The more attractive they are, the more vulnerable they become.
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Creeps calling, messaging and following as they're fallen completely for their level of attractiveness.
Then you got jerks who cat call them or honking their cars.
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To us guys, we see them as sluts desperate for attention = which is considered as victim blaming.
However to females they see it as a comfort, that there's a guy to talk too or call in case something happening or going to happen to them.
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Here's where the vulnerability gets tested:
What if you take away all the guy friends of the female, well they become subjected to "find friends" like anybody who doesn't want to be alone in this messed up world.
There have been cases of the lonely souls of the world, being overall too trusting.
To dumb it down to you Weebs what I am referring too is the:
"Unattractive girls"
Or
"Unpopular girls"
Well if you look at the history, they get lured into sexual predators of the world, the reason why it's been so "success" is because of the vulnerability of females.
As their life isn't "perfect" so they cling onto anything better from social media sites to hanging out with "rebels"...
This is as far as I will talk about this... as it gets more and more cringy upon explaining.
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So in conclusion: Why talk about this? Seems like high school BS, I see it as acknowledging just how vulnerable females are.
Us guys will never understand, unless you're a whimp who gets pushed around and have no back bone.
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Im okay if my girlfriend have guy friends. If she end up cheating then it means it never meant to happen. Being scared of her having lack of guy friends means lack of confidence. If she wants to cheat on you she will find a way to do it even without male friends.