Yeah you just about nailed it. When I play I want to escape and relax and do what my heart desires. I dont want all the waiting, talking and feeling obligated and commited to something I may not be enjoying. I just want to turn my brain off and focus on having fun. I really wanna do the raid but it feels way to stressful to enjoy. I work long days all over nyc and the last thing I wanna do is get caught up in all the limbo and wait and pressure of other people. I have enough of that during the day. Dont get me wrong I love talking and hanging with people just not while gaming...lol weird idk But as we all know it does prevent you from doing raids etc I just dont know anybody that plays Destiny and playing with random people just gives me a sense of pressure and I cant concentrate. Mm strikes and crucible is fine but forming a fireteam just isnt my thing.