I feel you dude and agree with alot what youre saying. Although for me its just that Im doing other stuff while playing like watching shows on My laptop or YouTube or listening to music or hanging with friends. But When i raid Im all there with the headset and try to be as much help as possible. But When i do strikes or crucible or public events I have no desire o be listening to someone chewing in My mic. If you can do it without communication Im all for it