Hi,
I’m a D1 player who logged over 3000 hours.
I play Crucible all the time, it’s my favorite Destiny Activity. I’m decent, not great.
(I hate Rumble BTW. Ironic, I know. I actually live for being a team player)
I did all the Raids, a lot. (I didn’t get Rise of Iron)
I was in a very successful Clan in D1(Knights of the Phoenix)
I have a lot friends on my friendlist.
So why do I, and other people, prefer to play solo 90% of the time?
There are several reasons, and I will try to be as concise as possible.
I HAVE LIMITED TIME TO PLAY:
When I get home, if I have time, I just want to jump into whatever activity
I feel like playing. I don’t want to see who is online, what activity they are doing, jump into their party,
ask them if they want to do what I want to do, wait in orbit, wait for two other people to join, or respond
to my messages, and THEN deal with the apology messages of, sorry already full etc etc.
I HAVE EMOTIONAL ANGST ABOUT THESE SOCIAL INTERACTIONS:
When I ask for friends to join me who are engaged in another activity I feel like I am bothering them.
Whether this is true or not, this is how it makes me feel, and I would rather not deal with it.
I DON’T ALWAYS FEEL LIKE TALKING:
Often times in these groups people are chatting away about their personal life, and it can be
overwhelming to me. I DO enjoy talking about the game, like callouts in PvP, but usually the
constant conversation about day-to-day life stresses me out and takes me out of the experience
I am trying to enjoy. (I hate CO-OP in story modes, because I can’t focus on the experience AT ALL)
This probably sounds funny to some people, but I bet for A LOT of solo players this is one of their
main reasons for preferring the Lone-Wolf.
THE STOP-START EXPERIENCE WITH GROUPS IS GRATING:
Play a match. One person leaves. 5 Minutes in Orbit till someone else can join. Play a match,
two people leave. Find replacements. Another 5 minutes. This tends to stress me out a lot.
I don’t know if I am coming off as a whiny wuss, but I wanted to shed some light on
why a lot of Guardians might prefer to play Solo. Maybe I am way off base.
Comments will let me know I guess.
EDIT: There appears to be some confusion here so I will clarify. I don't want Destiny to change. It should be a social game. It's awesome that way. I DO have a good time in 90% of Fireteams. I play with people all the time. The ONLY thing I would want either removed or tweaked is Skill Based Matchmaking. BUT THAT IS NOT WHAT THIS POST IS ABOUT. I'm just trying to give a perspective of why players choose to play Solo. Even with friends, not everyone can beat a Raid or go Flawless in Trials, and that is the way it should be. I LOVE DESTINY.
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Edited by Varzin: 9/14/2017 8:29:58 PMHi, I'm the leader of a clan called Axiomatica. I made this clan specifically for myself and my personal friends. With Destiny 2's introduction of clan banners and clan levels I've been talking with my friends about opening our clan up to more people in the interest of increasing our clan rank faster. None of us are particularly interested in making new friends or running raids or anything like that, we just want to benefit from an increased clan rank. We're still considering if we even want to do this* but assuming we do my intention is to open the clan up to more people and advertise it as a clan for solo players who don't want to be bothered. There is no expectation of teaming up regularly or running specific activities at specific times, heck we may never even speak to each other. If anyone in this thread would like to benefit from and contribute to a clan rank then please keep me in mind. All I ask of any potential new members is that everyone contribute their weekly clan XP and be civil when interacting with other players (if at all). In the event that which I confirm that every current member is on board with this plan I will return to this thread with more information. [b]If anyone is already interested please reply to this post, seeing whether or not people are actually interested in this will help us come to a final decision[/b]. *I'm pretty sure we will but I still need to get in contact with one member to make sure they're ok with this. EDIT: We're on XBone. Can't believe I forgot to include the platform.