The way I see it, if I give a shit about someone and they are playing me, then they are the only one who is smaller for it. Maybe you arn't an active member of the community, but as someone who hangs here regularly I consider certain users "friends" in so far as that word can apply to the internet. Therefore, I give a shit whether someone lives or dies, and I would rather get trolled hard by assuming the best of someone, than be a douche to someone going through a struggle.