Genuine question. A friend of mine keeps screwing up and falling off the wagon and he hates himeself for it every time because of the terrible decisions he makes. Besides offering my concern, I really don't know how else to get through to him, because he gets a one track mind when he drinks that leads him to doing things he regrets, but he knows what he's doing is stupid. At the same time I can't be his babysitter, and I don't want to straight up deck him in the face to get my points across. Anyway. Question stands. Edit: Thanks for your perspectives, dudes.