Its really not. I had to look several years to finally found a clan in my own language (and was kicked from few before because I am not US and don’t speak perfect english). American and UK people tend to forgot how hard it can be for foreigners. Spanish and French people don’t even want to try. Generalizing a bit.. but yeah. Also if you are older like me, you really clash easily with younger people who many times, don’t know how to behave at all. Cursing and dirty talking all the time, blaming others for their performance.