I am with you on this one. Destiny is back in its case on my media shelf, too. Destiny was my free-time go-to since 2014, but with my real-life work and family responsibilities, I can’t do it anymore. I’ve posted about similar issues in the past, specifically in reference to how the game leaves solo/casual players in the dust. Unfortunately, on these forums, you’re just gonna get a lot of “git gud” or “it’s not a solo/casual game” or “this game isn’t for you” responses. I’ve started playing authentic solo games lately - Call of Duty, The Witcher, Dragon Age and Mass Effect. I can now pause the game or drop the controller to take care of real-life things without any second thoughts. It’s very freeing, actually.