A red flag? To defend oneself when felt attacked is a red flag? Maybe it was misinterpreted, but it's not a red flag to refute what is perceived as a slight. Ok a perfect individual would ignore a troll in the instance of being slighted, but I've never heard of a perfect individual and am sure neither have you. We all have our flaws. I think your perception of his reaction being a red flag of his possible disingenuousness potentially reveals more of your idiosyncrasies than his. Now I'm just playfully making a point, but it holds more validity when analyzed than your unsubstantiated claim. Before you debate me, stop and just think about what I'm really saying instead of reacting to it as an attack on you.

I'll just put what works for me when anyone attacks me. Take this however you want, it's your choice. When I post anything I stay true to myself. How anyone perceives it is their choice, but when I'm being attacked and I know I'm not doing anything wrong, that means I have nothing to prove because I'm staying true to myself. This is just my opinion, when someone is concerned about what others are saying and it's not true and it's not directed at them and what I mean about that? is actually a reply sent to them. I don't go on the forum scrolling through every reply wondering what anyone is saying about me, If I did, that would be a sign of guilt. Staying true to my self keeps me from that guilt and there really is no need to defend myself on something I know is not true. So I go about my business and that keeps me from the conflict as well.

[quote]I'll just put what works for me when anyone attacks me. Take this however you want, it's your choice. When I post anything I stay true to myself. How anyone perceives it is their choice, but when I'm being attacked and I know I'm not doing anything wrong, that means I have nothing to prove because I'm staying true to myself. This is just my opinion, when someone is concerned about what others are saying and it's not true and it's not directed at them and what I mean about that? is actually a reply sent to them. I don't go on the forum scrolling through every reply wondering what anyone is saying about me, If I did, that would be a sign of guilt. Staying true to my self keeps me from that guilt and there really is no need to defend myself on something I know is not true. So I go about my business and that keeps me from the conflict as well.[/quote] Always stay true man. Good for you and im proud that you can as well. It's a good practice to follow

😄 If only more people could only see what i'm seeing right now. I will give you this, you're persistent.

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