I'll just put what works for me when anyone attacks me. Take this however you want, it's your choice. When I post anything I stay true to myself. How anyone perceives it is their choice, but when I'm being attacked and I know I'm not doing anything wrong, that means I have nothing to prove because I'm staying true to myself. This is just my opinion, when someone is concerned about what others are saying and it's not true and it's not directed at them and what I mean about that? is actually a reply sent to them. I don't go on the forum scrolling through every reply wondering what anyone is saying about me, If I did, that would be a sign of guilt. Staying true to my self keeps me from that guilt and there really is no need to defend myself on something I know is not true. So I go about my business and that keeps me from the conflict as well.