If you are leaving your game due to whatever reason (shenanagins, cheats, lag, stacks..etc)..
If you click on the Control node and its green for launch > they've set you up... (its usually red)
Its gonna plop you into a vs 4 stack or more.. in progress bad game... or some other bad option (where they are happy to feed your fresh corpse to the other team because, according to Bungie philosophy you've been a very very bad social person for leaving your complete waste of time match and are undeserving of good gameplay)
This has been consistent for me.. to duck out the most solid is heading to the tower.. way longer but still better imo.. if you still want to play...