originally posted in:TFS The Floods Sanctuary
View Entire Topic
Scenario: You successfully ask a girl/boy that you have known for some time out on a date and are presented the option of using a coupon to pay their share.
Would you do it? Why or why not? If yes, why? If not, when would it become acceptable to use a coupon on a date, if ever? How would you feel if the roles were reversed, and your date payed with a coupon?
Bonus question: are there any other rules of dating etiquette that you object to? Examples: men should pay for food, men should drive, women wearing makeup, kissing on the first date, not using your cellphone while on the date, etc.
Personally, I would never use a coupon on the first date. I'm not sure why, but the idea of using a coupon on a date is emasculating, and I believe it would weaken that first impression.
I'd say after the fifth date or so I might feel comfortable using a coupon. However, I would be fine if my lady payed with a coupon on the first date.
Discuss away!
-
i'd ask if they want to use it in a way that doesn't make me look like a cheap -blam!-. bonus question: on the first date you should go halves on the bill. second date onwards you can offer to pay it all (or they can) since you've decided to at least try to get a relationship going.