Sometimes when you get invited to a party but you decide not to go for whatever reason (not because you can't) do you end up having this weird feeling that you could have had so much fun and social time but you missed out on it? And do you feel like not going will have a negative impact on your popularity and that if you don't go you may not be invited next time? Oh, and assume it is a safe party. Wow, the flud is *not so* surprisingly antisocial.