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Edited by Hoshk: 5/10/2013 8:20:19 AM
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I'm in love with a lesbian

Ok, to begin I'll start with the obvious. Yes, I need advice. Yes, I'm an idiot for coming to b.net for that advice. But in all honesty, I need opinions from different people. And even if they're bad, I should get a laugh out of them, knowing b.net. But now to business... I'm in love with a lesbian. I've felt like this for around 3 months. I've told my family, who give good advice, but mostly don't get the fact that she's lesbian. They usually say "Ask her out anyway", but if I did that I'd look like a fool. The one friend I've told gives terrible advice, and usually does nothing other than piss me off with his stupid comments. I feel like I should tell her, but it feels so different to just telling any random girl you like her. If I tell her, I know there's absolutely no chance of us ever being together, which means there's 2 possibilities. - She accepts it and continues to be my friend and act the same - She finds it difficult to accept and things become awkward between us That second possibility is the one I worry about. Knowing her, she would be very kind about it and she would most definitely want to stay friends. But I really think things will become awkward, and she won't do things like hug me or hold me every now and then, which makes me feel so amazing. Next week I have 4 days alone with her, which I look forward to. But my life has been pretty depressing for the past 3 months, and I think telling her might ease the pain. I'm torn between whether I should do it during those 4 days or not. This is where you guys come in. What do you think I should do? This doesn't necessarily mean whether or not I should tell her, if you have any other advice that may be useful it would be much appreciated. TL;DR I'm in love with a lesbian and don't know how to deal with it. What do?

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  • My wife is self-proclaimed about 85% gay. At least from what she says, she goes through periods in her life where she is more attracted to women and then goes back to being attracted to men more, back and forth. So said girl might be going through same thing. If she likes the taste of the D, even a little, you still have a chance.

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