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5/28/2013 5:11:21 PM
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So I went out with a girl yesterday...
And I really like her. I dont think she knows it.
[b][u]THE SET UP[/u][/b]
I asked her to meet me at a bookstore to hang out, and she asked if she could bring a friend, I said yes, (because this wasnt a date, I didnt say this to her though). I brought my brother, thinking my brother could keep the friend busy to give me a chance to talk to the girl I like.
[b][u]THE EXECUTION[/b][/u]
So it kinda ended up sucking...cause of the friend. I barely got to talk to her, I barely showed off my ability to be cool or anything like that...But I got to see a little of the real her, because she was really comfortable around her friend, so she was doing stuff that she normally would not have.
[u][b]THE QUESTIONS[/u][/b]
Should I tell her I like her before I hangout with her again so that she wont want to bring a friend again? Should I tell her I like her in a text message or in person? Should I tell her that I want to go out on a date, just the two of us, and then on that date tell her that I like her?
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If you're going to tell her you like do it in person.
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I flew a drone into a cafeteria filled with people with my intention to take her to prom on a banner attached to it. then expressed my feelings after much talking in the car. Went wrong though, can't expect everyone to love you. (Huge Shocker Here)
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1 ReplyBro do you have a father in your life? Not sarcastically, I mean ask the man. He -blam!-ed your mom bro, he knows about these things.
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(Referring to your other thread) If you were a player you wouldn't have to ask people on the Internet these questions
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1 ReplyNothing is more awkward than not talking during a date
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Eh, wait a while I guess. Depends on the girl, is she shy or out going? I prefer to be friends with the girl before going out with them, like my girlfriend at the moment I was best friends with. Before actually asking to be her boyfriend. Makes a much stronger relationship with less awkwardness.
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3 RepliesAsk her to go bowling or some other activity where there can be multiple people involved. Doing that will allow you the opportunity for a couple moments of one on one time will still being social and all that jazz that comes with "not a date"..
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4 RepliesYou gotta put her in a situation to make her your girl and stop being a sissy. If that's her bestfriend, you gotta make her like you better than the girl you're pursuing. It's easy, champ.
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Hang out with her again if you want, but expect her to bring a friend along. When you two get a little more comfortable with each other, then ask her out on a date.
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3 RepliesFunny thing, I'm a woman and I can pick up chicks while fretting less than you do. inb4nogirlsontheinternet
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3 Replies[i]She wants the D...[/i]
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11 RepliesHow the -blam!- do people keep finding girls that don't have a boyfriend already?
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I love how people always ask the flood for advice on dating and other matters. Keeps the flood going.
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Ask her out on a date.
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1 ReplyAhh young love. So naive....
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1 ReplyA few problems here. If she asked to bring a friend, it may be because any of the following reasons: - she thought it would be awkward if it was just the two of you. - she maybe doesn't like you the same way and purposely used the friend as a 'cock blocker' if she expected you would tell her how you feel. Was the friend a guy or a girl? And was this girl spending more time talking to her friend or you? As for your questions, DO NOT tell her you like her through a text. Ask her to hang out again and only tell her how you feel if you are alone with her. And one last question, how old are you two?
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6 RepliesIf she asked if she could bring a friend, she probably is not interested. Just saying. Girls do that so that a situation will not be awkward and so that you're less likely to try to engage in one on one conversation about your feelings for her or about asking her out.
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I [i]was[/i] the girl.
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1 ReplyAt a bookstore?
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1 Replyditch the friend. You really messed up with the friend. Unless you bring another guy then the friend will just be a huge cock barrier the whole time.
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1 ReplySimply ask her out to meet up just the 2 of you, the ice has already been broken. Then it's simply a case of seeing how it goes. Oh and don't text them you fancy them, that's just creepy. If your going to send them something to show you like them you should put toast in a envelope.
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12 RepliesRight, first off - how do you hangout in a bookstore? Maybe we have different bookstores, but what the hell do you do in a bookstore besides buying books? Is there like a combined Starbucks? Let her bring a friend OP, just be dominant in conversations, without seeming like a prick. Whatever there talking about just jump in, or say something funny. Let if flow for a bit, then start asking about dates n' crap.
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Hang out with her alone, obviously. 1 on 1 doesn't mean a date.
