Never said I thought of them as objects just that I'd notice some parts of their body quicker than others if there was anything to notice. Your reading to hard into my words when it's not some weird quirk were I think someone talking to me and burning my ear off is an object. why you tried to make my words sound (would it fit under sexist?) I have no idea but apparently this subject deeply troubles you so I apologize, but I am not the type to consider another person an object that fact should be stated now since I didn't make that clear