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5/29/2013 3:07:42 PM
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An observation I have made about depression

Some of you may already be aware of this but it has just recently come to my attention. People will often look to others in times of need, depression is certainly a time where help is needed. But what I've realised is that talking to someone about your depression really has no benefit. At least, not in my eyes. An example. I have a female friend of which I consider to be like a sister. We have that sort of brotherly-sisterly connection. I have once opened up to her properly before but I don't think it really helped overall. It was good to get it off my chest but she couldn't really help. So if I were to completely open up about how I feel, what could she do? Nothing. Her words wouldn't fix how I feel. Not everything. So opening yourself up to someone to show them the real you when your are really really low does nothing but expose yourself. You have to trust them to not tell others (an issue I struggle with) and yet you feel the same. So what's the point really? Like I said, getting it off your chest feels great but it is a small pro compared to all of the cons. So depression is kind of an unbeatable force, isn't it?
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  • No, it's not unbeatable, and that sort of thinking is what's giving away your power to overcome it. "Depression" isn't a freak force of nature, it's a word, a term to describe mood(s) . . . yes, it's real in the sense that such moods exist, but it's not a human-magnetic guillotine. But the only thing that has the ability to change that is yourself, your own will. That does not mean other people -- other things -- can't help you, but you have to allow them to help, you have to find them, whatever it may be. Find something that can make you happy, that has real value to you, and get it. And . . . sometimes you have to just tell people the truth, and trust them. Don't be afraid of fear, you have to embrace it. [url=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mgmVOuLgFB0]Allow yourself to take from this.[/url]

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