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I want her but I don't want to mess up their relationship.....what do i do?
UPDATE: Well flood, I forgot to mention she never told me directly she had a boyfriend, I found out from my friend. All the times we've talked she's never told me about him, i try not to pursue but i can't resist
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Chances are you're not very close, and you probably just met her (or maybe you haven't even introduced yourself yet). She's happy with her boyfriend, and if she's not, it's not your job to be her shoulder to cry on. I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years, and there have been definite ups and downs. If I had found out that she was seeking comfort from another guy, even a friendzoned guy, I'd be extremely pissed because I'd know that guy is just being a selfish prick. So don't be a dick. Just man up and find a different girl.