The difference is I don't insult others, knowing that they'll see it and possibly get hurt by it. Like I've already stated in my thread, we all can be judgmental and I'm no exception. When my friends are talking about this girl or guy and saying "Yeah he/she is really attractive", why can't I say "Meh. I don't think they are"? I'm just sharing an opinion with friends. I'm not saying it to the person themselves, then it would be rude. The situations is COMPLETELY different.