What I'm getting out of this is that you can either be, A) An asshole or B) A secret asshole You act like a saint saying that we can talk about people but only behind their back. That's not making you a good person. And if you don't want anyone hurt then don't say it in the first place. Yes it's wrong for people to say mean things about these girls but then these girls should have known that this forum is full of dickheads. These girls aren't in the wrong but then again they should have never posted pictures of themselves if they didn't want comments on their looks.