I have some friends who you just discribed.. but two of them I know for sure, have never done Cannabis. They are two to three years older than me, have no job, live with their parents/grandparents, sit at home, play video games, and make excuses.. I smoked a few times.. I have a job, I have bills, but I live with my parents though too, but mostly by choice. Renting or owning a home would be extrewmely counter-productive. My college status is unknown manly because of the cost and the lack of knowing what I want to do, because I've always been like that since the age of 10.