I don't think there's any specific age people should lose their virginity, I guess it depends on the person. I honestly don't think it effects much or when you lost your virginity matters. Think of somebody you greatly respect. Have you ever honestly thought, "I wonder when he lost his virginity..."? I lost mine at 16 but I really don't even think about it. I mean it was special, but it was just sex. Didn't make me the person who I am today and unless you lost your virginity at the age of 9 I don't think it would affect who you are.