how do you know if she's chill or a bitch? I don't know, may I'll talk to her first and figure that out for myself, then after gaining a first impression and attempting an intelligible conversation I will distinguish if she is worth my time or if she can pack sand. The same way I treat men. In fact, I don't care who gets in the kitchen to make me a sammich so long as there's no damn crusts. If you are offended by "hey baby, what's your name" stay the hell of out every bar in the world. Exactly, now you can't say you aren't singling anyone out. That now makes your original statement invalid.