I don't know, there is not greater ice breaker with a person then to help them tell someone off that is harassing them. I suppose in this fantastical hypothetical that we've been tossing back and forth, after an act like that I'd hope I get a "thanks" and if I don't then that person can pack sand. It's nice to see that you have a crystal ball on your soap box for you to tell the future on how every harassment interaction is going to go. If there is one thing I have experienced with women who are gamers, is that they can take care of their mother lovin' selves. It's 2013 and nearly 2014, woman have rights and they can defend themselves. Chivalry is dead man, no need to be chivalrous if she can pick up her own god damned sword and fight alongside me. I really wish you wouldn't have gone out on the limb because it's going to break. I've been married for 5 years and I have a daughter. What ever snappy remarks you want to make about my marriage is fine and even if you want to throw some jabs about my being a father, also fine. But I do want to remind you. That throughout our little debates, I've refrained from making it personal, and I've continued to dance in the realm of what has been said and facts. It's not just women who mute the whole damned lobby, men do it too. Hell, I do it but that's because I get tired of hearing how my mom likes to shag prepubescents.