What is wrong with treating them like Queens? Are you saying that women are not worthy of the utmost respect and treatment? It isn't lazy logic at all, it's not my problem, if someone wants help they can ask for help. If you go off and try to save everyone, didn't you watch the Incredibles? If someone decides the mute the whole map, or leave the whole game or get offended that is their choice, you can't stop it, you can't influence it, it is up to themselves. As the great Katt Williams once said "It is called SELF esteem, it is the esteem of your mother -blam!-in' self." I would hope that I have taught my daughter to defend herself by the time she's old enough to be harassed. It isn't my job to protect her 24/7, my daughter would not be able to grow. It is my job to educate her, and to be there to tell her that she is beautiful and that I love her. It is also my job to make sure that she has all the tools she needs to be successful in this world. Oh, and she has Karate lessons shortly after ballet, because I would rather worry about the poor bastard that trys something, rather than worrying about my little girl if someone trys something. It's just all around raising and independent and strong woman. Go ahead, hit on my wife, she's a good lookin' woman, she isn't my property and I trust her. I don't care where she gets her appetite so long as she always eats at home. I've got no insecurities. Why do you think so many guys take their women to watch Twilight or chick flicks? One day you may figure it out. I don't need to prove that guys get sexually harassed by women over games because 1. I don't care. 2. I don't care and 3. I wasn't the one dealing in absolutes, you don't seem to be getting this concept, so I'm guess you may have a learning disability... Because, part treating someone with respect is to let them do as they choose, or do what they want. There are all sorts of people in this world; different faiths, creeds, colors, nationalities and values. If you have a problem with sexism, never go to Asia, Africa, the Middle East, I can list of so many more. You can't change people, and the world is full of double standards. The best you can do is conduct yourself to the moral compass that you have developed. If you don't like people who are sexist, don't hang around people who are sexist. Do your own thing and these female gamers you are eager to defend will come to you if they choose. In inalienable fact of life, men chase women until women catch them.