I didn't read the article But imagine this. You're an attractive woman. You're hit on every other day. People say vulgar things to you. They ask you crude questions and you have to be polite otherwise you're a bitch. Your manager grabs a feel here and there but it's just "joking around" if you bring it up. You should calm down and take it as a compliment anyway. You should be happy men are throwing themselves at you. Despite you saying you have a boyfriend they guilt trip you. They make you feel bad. The more you politely resist the more forceful they become. Hostile. They resort to calling you names. Even spitting at you. You're assaulted. But you should calm down. It's a -blam!-ing compliment. What I'm saying is After awhile its not a joke. After so many days of taking it "as you should" you get -blam!-ing tired of it. You can compliment a woman without slapping her god damn ass. You didn't ask. You didn't have permission to touch her. //rant Will probably delete later.