I'm really upset because she was one of the few people in my life I really cared about I don't know what the -blam!- even happened but was wondering if you guys could figure out if there's something wrong. I'm not one of those euphoric neckbeards that complains about being friendzoned since I like being friendzoned(say what you want but I value our friendship more than a relationship) So anyway about 3 weeks ago she came to visit since we live in different states we'll call her Amy, so Amy came to where I live 3 weeks ago and we hung out a day before she left we went to a barbeque and stuff and we were really playful with each other and it seemed like there was something there but I didn't care because again I want the friendship.
So after she went home I asked her something about prom and normally she would give me advice but this time she said "why does what I think matter?" and it has been like this ever since we hung out and last week she brought up what if we already met our significant others and I don't know if it was a hint or not. I don't think it was because I asked her if she thought she had met him and she brought up her ex boyfriend who she really loved and they only broke up because she moved.
Now this wednesday we were talking and she randomly goes something along the lines of
"we get together really well" and then immediately after that she goes "it gets even better" and I said what does? and she said never mind and ever since then she's been giving me one word replies and totally ignoring me.
What the -blam!- is happening Flood?
Also I tried to make it into paragraphs the best I could but B.net doesn't allow for more than one space.
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Damn, you stupid bastard. She likes you. Give her some flowers.
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Edited by Demigod: 4/27/2014 5:07:17 AM[quote]Now this wednesday we were talking and she randomly goes something along the lines of "we get together really well" and then immediately after that she goes "it gets even better" and I said what does?[/quote] [quote]What the -blam!- is happening Flood?[/quote]
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Oh the Bungie forums! Where you can post the questions you never think to ask your friends and family to total strangers and actually get better answers than you would from friends or family. This is late I know but, How did it all work out?
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pee in her butt
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Go make another friend.
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>Best friend >Girl Found your problem, OP.
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Be real, man, call her and ask if she's mad about something. It sounds like she wants to be in a relationship though. Talk it out, it'll be fine. I love how I keep giving advice on here like I have friends...
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Ask her to have sex with you, if she says no tell her you'll pay her.
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I half expected this to be some Denko bullshit.
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Sounds like you friendzoned her. Give it time, it doesn't need to be solved immediately. Sounds like she doesn't want to talk, so don't talk. Give her space. And text her/call in a few days.
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Oh yeah I forgot something because I'm a bit pre-occupied but after the whole thing I asked her if she had something else to say and she asked me if I wanted her to say something more, I said maybe because I'm an idiot and she said she's sorry so that's another reason I'm confused. I then replied with it doesn't matter don't worry about it and all she's said to me since then is "Ok." Am I autistic?
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Edited by xurs cheeky bag: 4/27/2014 2:00:17 AMYou're friendzoning her, not the other way around. Man you're thick.
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SHE LIKES YOU.
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The whole ex boyfried thing is to make you jealous dawg.
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Edited by Progo: 4/27/2014 11:43:21 AMText her this: [quote]pls respond[/quote] [spoiler]Seriously doe, sounds like you aren't the problem, give her some space, then try to rope her into something fun in a few weeks.[/spoiler]
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Sounds like she doesn't want to be in the friendzone bro. The longer you wait the more painful it will be for her dude.
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More info, she's insanely beautiful like perfect and she models and I'm like 8/10(from what I've been told) but I'm also spaghetti in my pockets stupid when it comes to dating. So this is another part I'm confused at why she would ever be into me.
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Give her some space for a little while. I'm sure that it will be fine.
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Edited by Blonic : 4/27/2014 1:53:49 AMNow I feel like watching Chasing Amy. [spoiler]But in all seriousness, I'm not sure.[/spoiler]
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Well she wants what you can't give m8 She's expecting more from you and you're failing to meet that expectation She's going to keep expecting this from you unless you tell her that you have nothing to give She'll either cut you out completely or she'll understand You need to know that she'll be heartbroken either way Me personally, I think you should go for something more You can't stay in one place forever
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It sounds like she clearly wants to become more then friends, if she makes you happy, go for it
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she reached her hand out to pull you from the friendzone and you slapped it away. or she's just being moody.
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Too much info. Too little care. Did not read.
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Tl;dr
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She probably realized that you're a raging fagtard, and doesn't want to be your friend anymore.
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Edited by Van Darkholme: 4/27/2014 1:40:25 AMMarriage is clearly the only solution [spoiler]Tell her how you feel about her. Be direct as possible. [/spoiler]