...what would you do? You have two good kids (do their homework, get good grades, look up to you, are athletic, etc.), one girl and one boy. Your spouse is devoted to you and she has a well paying job and is your "type". It's 7:30 AM and you don't have to be at work until 9:00, your work is well paying and, while not your perfect fit, you enjoy it. You live in a upper middle class neighborhood in a good house. You have a nice car (nothing too fancy). You are the American ideal of a nuclear family. How would you deal with this? Note: Sorry to anybody who is married already and/or has children.