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6/4/2014 2:30:51 PM
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Wedding Night Sexy Time. Whats it like?
Many of you know that my wedding is this Saturday. Many of you know that my Fiance and I are virgins. So i ask from the married members, what was your wedding night like?
If you want to share.
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Also... You're gonna be soo damn tired after the wedding and reception. You'll be lucky to keep it up lol
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Don't sweat it bro. Let it come naturally. Maybe you both lose your v-card on that night, maybe you just hold each other and talk all night. Make it as special as possible, even if it doesn't involve sex. It'll come when you're ready.
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Also... You're gonna be soo damn tired after the wedding and reception. You'll be lucky to keep it up lol
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Sex is fun!! It's not all that it's cracked up to be though. Don't get me wrong it's awesome, just not this "holy grail" sent down from the heavens we all imagine it too be.....holy get it...cause vag is a hole.....,okay.
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6 Replies>Caring about marriage lol
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Just go with it. Be calm and don't rush into it. Foreplay is key.
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1 ReplyThis is going to sound completely odd to some people. But it depends a lot on how the day goes. Some wedding days are incredibly stressful, long, exhausting events and many are then followed by receptions that last forever and are almost just as high-tension. You think that rough 8 hour day at work can exhaust you? Imagine being part of an event where one, usually multiple people all have an image of "this perfect day that is going to go exactly how I envision it". Could be the bride, could be her mom (trying to have a do-over for her wedding), could be a pushy sister, or some combination of that. The events, especially if they are major productions that are then micromanaged by the various 'zillas? Well, at the end of a long day like that? You're beat. As far as first time being intimate? Neither person should make any assumptions, especially about or for the other. Talk, talk lots, talk softly, talk lovingly, and talk about everything. How nervous you are, how much you care for each other, ask questions, how does this feel, do you like it, etc. Since you are both inexperienced, there shouldn't be any expectation for the other to "automatically know stuff" and that discussion, that taking of your time, that gentle exploration.... is a good way to unwind after one of the most stressful events you've both recently been through. My wedding night? It was fine. Not awesome, but very very nice. We laughed, we talked, we loved. It's all good.
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Prepare to be confused and disappointed.
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*Looks at thread Hmm, this should be fun. It'll give me a good idea on what to expect on [i]my[/i] wedding night. *Reads comments O_O ... I'm staying a virgin.
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Edited by New York Times: 6/4/2014 6:52:20 PMdont put it in the wrong hole
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Take it slow Saturday night is not going to be sexy time It's going to be...slow grooving if you want to call it that The first time is always painful for the female Her hymen is not a just a flap covering the uterus so nothing is going to pop It's a tissue lining the uterus and it can be tore if you go too hard It's flexible and can take the burden of sex after a few times So go slowly to avoid tearing it Besides, it's your first time so it won't be as romantic and smooth as you think it'll go You'll make mistakes and find out what you like The first time is not so much as sexy time as it is exploration So enjoy it Have fun and be careful I'm happy for you bud and take this video of virgins kissing for the first time
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3 RepliesIt's going to hurt her really bad. Be prepared for that. Don't click spoiler if you don't want to hear gross shit. [spoiler]My first time was horrible. I was torn really bad and my cherry got -blam!-ing demolished. I was sore for three weeks and had bleeding for 1. Have menstrual pads because she might bleed like a period after.[/spoiler]
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2 RepliesYou're both virgins? That sucks, because your first time having sex, which is your wedding night of all times, is going to suck. With that being said, once you both learn how to sex each other your sex will be unparalleled because you'll have nothing to compare it to. Which is good since you're marrying this person. It's not necessarily a good thing to compare your wife to the other girls you've had sex with.
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[spoiler] 8===D ({}) [/spoiler]
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Has she already taken care of birth control?
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Ah the joys of companionship. Wish I had someone to love.
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On my wedding night, my sister watched our kids while we got some cheap motel room down the road, which we actually got locked out of from the beginning. It took them 2 hours to actually get us back in. By that time, we just went to sleep. It was nice.
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In all honesty, we didn't even have sex the first night. It was a very long stressful day and we were pooped. If you've never had sex then I assume it will be rather quick. Just go with the flow, and it's not like the porn movies. She won't be moaning like crazy and if she is it's most likely because it hurts.
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3 RepliesEdited by Cobravert: 6/4/2014 2:42:52 PMIf you're both virgins, it will be awkward at first and likely painful for her. Try to find both your comfort levels and don't try to push hers, or think you have to experiment with everything you can imagine the first night. You have a lifetime to do those things, so don't wear it out. All I'll say is just always remember, it is both of you - not just you getting what you want. This goes for the rest of everyday marriage as well. But TALK to each other. And hopefully you've both discussed any plans about children before now. Whether or not you decide to use contraception needs to be discussed before this weekend.
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No sexy times on wedding night. Too much partying at reception.
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It'll be short awkward and fun the first time. Then ten minutes later you'll be a bit better at it. Then about 20 min after that time you'll start to feel like you've got the hang of it. Good luck, have fun, and congrats!
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My sister says its heavenly. But then again she likes hockey so I wouldn't trust her word so much.
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Well, it's probably going to be clumsy, awkward, brief, and incredibly disappointing for you.
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*What's. I'm 18 and I've never had sex so I have no idea what a wedding night is like. I guess it's very different from couple to couple, especially if you're virgins.
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It's different for everyone, don't bring expectations.
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2 Replies>not having sex before marriage >assuming all are virgin until marriage The tippy top of the toppiest kek
