Take it slow Saturday night is not going to be sexy time It's going to be...slow grooving if you want to call it that The first time is always painful for the female Her hymen is not a just a flap covering the uterus so nothing is going to pop It's a tissue lining the uterus and it can be tore if you go too hard It's flexible and can take the burden of sex after a few times So go slowly to avoid tearing it Besides, it's your first time so it won't be as romantic and smooth as you think it'll go You'll make mistakes and find out what you like The first time is not so much as sexy time as it is exploration So enjoy it Have fun and be careful I'm happy for you bud and take this video of virgins kissing for the first time