I have a real problem with religion. I think being spiritual and believing there exists a higher power is great, but I draw the line at structured religion. I believe religions are just a way to have power over people and control them in an unhealthy way. Religion is just not natural, it is an idea that has been created by man and forced onto others. My biggest problem with religion, and specifically Christianity, are the "rules" set forth. As I've said before, I think the entire concept of no sex before marriage is absurd and extremely archaic. But I also strongly disagree with many other things, including the bible's "stance" on gay marriage. The bible was written by man, it's a fact, god did not come down and whip out a quill pen and ink jar and start scribbling away. For people to rely so heavily on the bible, other than for short spurts of inspiration, is ridiculous. Religions are cults, and for people to be unable to see that is upsetting. Using "god" and "the bible" as an excuse as to why you believe something is the cop out of all cop outs. By simply telling me that you think a certain way because "the church told me to" is completely juvenile. You are an adult, you have a working mind of your own, use it. Think about WHY the church has set forth these rules and regulations. Everything has a reason and if you're unable to find a specific need for a certain rule chances are it was implemented to control. If you aim to be a truly spiritual person you should be able to love unconditionally. Humans are amazing, they truly are. The diversity our world has allows us all to be a unique person. People should cherish that and appreciate it, why on earth would someone want to take someone's individuality away? The saddest part is, in following religion, people think that they're doing what god wants them to do. They are trying to please "god" and make him see they are worthy of his love. When, in reality, if there actually is a god, they are doing the exact opposite of what he would want. If there is a god do you actually believe he would condone hatred and judgement? That he would want you to do or be anything other than what he intended you to do or be? I think people who follow religions need to take a deep look into themselves and ask themselves if this is actually the way they want to live. I know I am my own person and I am more than capable of making decision for myself. I was given a brain for a reason and I do not intend to hand my freedom of thought and self expression over to the church, I refuse to be controlled by anything or anyone other than myself.