Well, technically, it can be a choice to some degree. People change throughout the course of their lives, and sexual orientation and particular likings to things operate in the same manner. I bet if you made a history chart of the thoughts you first thought when you bumped into a particular, and now, liked aspect of yours, there was a very stark difference between then and now. At the beginning, there was rejection, resistance, and avoidance. But over time, some of those particular aspects begin to change. And how far you go with this depends on the limits you place on yourself. The Human mind is a funny thing, and we're all wired differently. Maybe we're born with a specific set of wiring that enables us to look at things in an easier light and begin to like something over other people. But it doesn't really matter, because the number one rule about people is, if someone's done it, thought of it, or made it, somebody else beat them to the punch first in one of these aspects. And you know what that means? Every single person has [i]something.[/i] that [i]one[/i] little kink. But somewhere else, there's another person with exactly the same kink. None of us are as far off as we seem, but we've been programmed to point out what stands out, recognize something that stands out of what we call "ordinary" and we look at it in an often fearful, mistrusting manner, while ironically, when the mirror is flipped and judgement is reversed, the results would be the same.