Who says they "didn't notice you", the whole point of the moon and Iron Banner was to make large groups of players log on and play in a short space of time. This is called stress testing its to make sure the servers won't overload and crash on day one when everyone logs on at once, this is also something many game developers don't seem to do enough, they pick times for these when they beleive most people will be able to play (stress test) like weekends and evenings, if you had work, party, funeral, family event, had to take a shit, too bad! Its a videogame at the end of the day and it makes you sound about 12 when you post on a forum about how upset you are because you didnt get to play the supersecretawesomemap because bungie cares about everyone BUT YOU because you don't work a 9-5 5 days a week.

i am planning on making a personal list of all people who say they cancel there orders or some other reason then at 9-9 if they login i will know. then i have a nice blacklist for people i can block don't feel the need to play with such negative nay sayers.