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Edited by Shard:
8/4/2014 8:44:43 PM
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Thoughts on domestic violence
[quote]There is no excuse for domestic violence[/quote]
Really? Who else here in the flood thinks this? Now I have never in my life hit a girl, but I feel like there could be some situations where it is acceptable. For instance, I get extremely frustrated when I'm am accused of cheating. I have many faults but being unfaithful is not one of them, and I think being wrongly accused of that deserves a smack. Now I'm not saying haul off and try to crush her head, but let her know you're serious. So are there any situations where the flood would deem domestic violence acceptable?
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2 RepliesSomeone hitting someone else for what ever reason will NEVER be acceptable no matter who they are!!
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2 RepliesDomestic violence isn't a husband hitting his wife. Its violence in the home. It can be a husband hitting his wife, it can as easily be a wife beating her husband. It can be siblings hitting each other, or parents abusing kids, or kids abusing parents. There isn't such a simple minded conservative answer like hurr durr itz teh menz htiing teh wominzz. Its violence in the home. And women abusing their husbands and boyfriends is one of the fastest growing trends. That and elder abuse. Maybe you should learn more about a subject before you use preteen white male angst to stir up more preteen white male angst in your little neo-national socialist boys club.
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1 ReplyEdited by PLAY BALL: 8/5/2014 10:36:38 PMNope. You don't hit your girlfriend/wife. Ever. If you're flipping out or have anger problems hit a pillow until you get the anger out. It's the same thing and that way you won't feel like killing yourself afterwards because you lost your mind and punched the shit out of your girlfriend/wife. The point is getting the anger out, you'll find it doesn't matter what you hit. Trust me, I have temper problems and it helps a lot. It also shows the person you're arguing with you've snapped and they'll leave you alone.
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1 Reply"Hm.. Let me solidify my point by physically harming you." Lmao you're something else.
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1 ReplyBetter than international violence.
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2 RepliesUnacceptable just keep your calm and let her know through body language even if she hits you just walk away. The only time it's ok to hit a woman is when she is physically threatening lives
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6 RepliesDomestic violence is entirely unacceptable, no matter the situation.
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There are two sides to every story. Don't be a hero.
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1 Reply[quote]I think being wrongly accused of that deserves a smack.[/quote] This is really troubling, that people like you are around.
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I beat my partner every single day, she cries and cries and I just laugh. It feels good being this good in Halo.
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1 ReplyEdited by Gatsby: 8/5/2014 9:38:58 PMWow wow calm down Chris brown, you want to physically hurt your partner because of an accusation? Damn son. Chill talk about it with and settle the situation like a civilised person
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Edited by Psy: 8/4/2014 8:23:33 PMI have many faults but being unfaithful is one of them, and I think being wrongly accused of that deserves a smack. You might want to reword that if you didn't intend it to sound like you are unfaithful. Oh, and Never. If you hit your wife/partner then you should be smacked in the face by Mike Tyson.
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1 ReplyYeh because I'm sure smacking her would improve the situation dramatically.
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1 ReplyAnswers to this question will be an easy way of telling who shouldn't be in a relationship.
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Turtles, people.. Turtles.
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5 RepliesI want to hit you for saying that.
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I like my violence like I like my beer... [spoiler]domestic[/spoiler]
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1 ReplyIs this real life ?
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No solve your problems with words or just leave
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Edited by DB5: 8/5/2014 8:30:15 PMNo. What the hell is wrong with you
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Only acceptable in self defence, and then its not really domestic violence. And yeah, stop slapping people over such things OP.
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Edited by Hunter: 8/5/2014 6:07:40 PM[quote]For instance, I get extremely frustrated when I'm am accused of cheating. I have many faults but being unfaithful is not one of them, and I think being wrongly accused of that deserves a smack.[/quote] What? You shouldn't smack someone for having suspicions about you. You should tell them off (if they're wrong), but smacking? Really? You shouldn't get physical over words and accusations, that's just stupid. I believe you should only get physical in self-defense.
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9 Replies[quote]For instance, I get extremely frustrated when I'm am accused of cheating. I have many faults but being unfaithful is not one of them, and I think being wrongly accused of that deserves a smack.[/quote]You know that doesn't make you a good person, right? You're faithful enough to not cheat on them, but you don't like them enough to resist the urge to smack them for being worried.
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3 RepliesIt is NEVER ok to hit your partner. I was in a abusive relationship a few years back that escalated quickly. He however punched me first but after the 5th 6th and 7th time i realized he wasnt gonna stop so i did defend myself. Like a previous poster had said, it just creates emotional and psychological trauma. Oh did i mention that he become violent after i found out he was cheating and smoking pot? I never accused him, but still got hit. Guilty conscience can drive a person do crazy things. Better get yourself under control. You sound insecure, immature and like you need to get out of the dating scene to do some self analyzing. In your defense, she has emotional issues as well if she is accusing you and you are TRULY innocent. Was she cheated on b4? Maybe you did or said something that triggered her past hurts? Verbal abuse(calling each other names, demeaning,etc) is a sure fire way to lower a girls self esteem. Maybe she feels crappy about herself cuz a jerk has told her she is replaceable? Now she takes it out on you?? Two broken people will never work...gotta fix yourself not fix the other person. Healthy relationships are built on healthy people. Gotta deal with heart rooted issues in life from past hurts from family, friends, partners and experiences in life. [spoiler]I'm an addictions counselor...not a therapist lol [/spoiler]
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Feminist double standard: Husband hits Wife = Domestic violence Wife hits Husband = You go girl! Put him in his place! And they say they want "Equality"
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1 Reply[quote]I think being wrongly accused of that deserves a smack.[/quote] Damn, your insecure.
