Okay, so there is this girl I used to be good friends with, then I dated her for a few months. A few months ago, however, she kinda went off with another dude. She didn't cheat per se, but she broke up with me to go with the other dude. Anyway, I haven't talked much to her since then, but recently she broke up with the other guy and now she keeps messaging me, and she sent me some "gifts". I don't know what she is trying to achieve. Maybe she wants to be friends again, maybe she wants to go out again. I am single right now, so to say, though I've been going out with several girls.
I don't know what to do. I told myself I don't want anything to do with her anymore, but it seems like she is really trying to be nice. Any advice, Flood?
P.S. Anyone else having troubles with apostrophes on B.net recently? In fact, seems like the site update a month or so ago broke a lot of stuff.
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She dumped you when something better came along. However, you don't know her true motivations as to why she's talking to you again. Since you're probably not going to outright ask her, I'd suggest giving her a second chance. But tell her how you feel about what she did. Don't hold your feelings back. If she really cares about you then she'll listen and try to win you back. Worst case scenario: she says no. Best case scenario: you get your (girl)friend back. Seems like an easy decision to me: Give her another chance. And seriously guys? Way too many of you Floods voted for OP to aim low by just being friends. Go big or go home, dude. It's worth the risk regardless of how it turns out.