I have a similar problem, had xbox my whole life and have a great group on there, I converted to ps4 alone. I'm being too hard really, got a lot going on, plus I'm fortunately one of the few who is happy just playing Pvp if it came down to it, maybe not now, but by the end of the year when I've sorted a few things out I'll get a mic, get a clan and catch up on these things.