Okay, so I just found out that a very influential person in my life died on Friday and his funeral is tomorrow @ 10am, which I'd like to go, but here's the kicker. My gf's dad died exactly one year ago tomorrow @ 10am. Wtf?! So, do I go to the funeral or not? She will be at work tomorrow during the funeral, but I'm scared I'm going to be a mess tomorrow and not be in my right mind if my gf needs my emotional support... What to do, what to do...