originally posted in:Dads of Destiny
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Okay, so I just found out that a very influential person in my life died on Friday and his funeral is tomorrow @ 10am, which I'd like to go, but here's the kicker. My gf's dad died exactly one year ago tomorrow @ 10am. Wtf?!
So, do I go to the funeral or not? She will be at work tomorrow during the funeral, but I'm scared I'm going to be a mess tomorrow and not be in my right mind if my gf needs my emotional support...
What to do, what to do...
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So sorry for your loss. The best thing for you is to go to the funeral and pay respect to a vip in your life. There was a reason why he was so influential in your life & its nothing to do with your gf. As men we need to look to other influential men as our "go to" for wisdom or to just talk. I lost my older brother 5 months ago and he was that person for me. No better way to show how much these kind of people mean to us but to never forget them and the knowledge they instilled in us.