I have found that the group of players that I met in the first week of destiny are super helpful and willing to pitch in on anything... But getting a random group together to play hard mode when your normal team is away can be tricky. People don't seem willing to put the time in to getting used to playing and communicating. Seems every one expects that it will be a speed run every time. My favourite question I always enjoy over party chat is the guy who always asks - why are people always dying??? I bite my tongue - but I always want to scream - cause they got shot at!